Doing lots of research this week about living with aging parents… Not sure of the outcome, but its sure looking like the in-laws will be moving in with us fairly soon.  So many things go into that.  For them, a loss of independence and privacy and loss of a lot of accumulated “stuff”.  For us, same loss of privacy…and some other things, of course.  We’d also have to make some adjustments to our home, including a ramp (inside the garage) and a shower stall where a bathtub currently resides.

But…it seems so much like the right thing to do, and the best of the options, especially since neither they nor us can afford assisted living centers.

So many thoughts…so much information…and yet, so much we don’t really know.

Any comments will be appreciated.  We’re also looking into veteran’s benefits that are available that we are just finding out about…